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Princess Clover’s Birth Story

Born June 4, 2016 1:28 a.m.

9 lbs 6.5 oz, 21 1/2 inches

Midwives of Hale Kealaula; Selena Green and Jaymie Lewis

Photos by Jenna Toilolo; Captivating Creation Photography https://m.facebook.com/captivatingcreation

It all began a few weeks prior with a few light surges during the early morning hours and I was sure that this little ‘boy’ (I swore up and down that I was carrying a boy throughout the entire pregnancy lol) was going to arrive earlier than his EDD.

However March 27th came and went and still no Clover baby.  Of course, being a Midwife in training I knew that ‘he’ would come in his own good time.  Daddy however was getting a bit anxious and wanted to make sure that I had a ‘Plan B’ should baby not come by 42 weeks.  I assured him that we had pre-registered with Queen’s hospital so we could go there if our OB (wonderful Dr. Bliss Kaneshiro, who I heard isn’t accepting new patients at this time) thought it was necessary.

The morning of June 3rd, I picked up my children in Kapolei, did some errands and went grocery shopping all while having some pretty consistent surges 🙂  Walking through the isles of Sack n Save in Nanakuli pausing and holding on to the cart while telling my son to hold on a second lol.  Of course my wonderful Midwife; Selena Green was aware and had told my amazing Midwife Sister; Jaymie that I was having some surges.

When we got home we put things away and settled in to have dinner, still having some surges once in a while; and then while sitting in my seat on our ‘new’ couch, my water broke.  Daddy was a little surprised as he was setting up the grill outside to BBQ some ribs and was a little taken a back by the liquid on the ground (I stood up after the first gush).

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My midwife called to double check how fast my births were after waters broke and I told her that both my previous births were 5 hours.  So she let Jaymie and my beautiful friend Jenna who would be taken these amazing photos know that it was time to come.  As predicted the surges came stronger and longer, though I was able to eat and drink fine, joke around and help give daddy some directions on what could be done before the Midwives arrived.

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After that is basically a blur but I do remember holding everyone’s hands while laboring in the pool.  Getting an ice pop, laughing, being on hands and knees and moaning but most of all as it was getting to the most intense point.  Jaymie was whispering in my ear to let the energy go down and out, so when the surges came I did just that.  It helped tremendously and I remember pushing not long after that, it seemed like not very long but it was probably about an hour of pushing her down.

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When her head emerged, I thought it would be quick that she would slide out as my previous to babies did.  However little Clover’s shoulders were stuck and Jaymie had to get her little arm out first before she was fully birthed at 1:28 a.m. on Saturday June the 4th.  As soon as she came out she wasn’t breathing for a bit so we rubbed up her back but still no breaths, so I gave her a few puffs as we are trained to (just the air that’s in your mouth, not big breaths) and I heard her first little gasp.  We gave her a little bit of O2 also and she slowly came around and began breathing on her own.

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We didn’t know the sex of our baby yet, so I quickly flipped her bottom over to see and saw that I had been wrong the entire pregnancy.  My ‘boy’ was a little girl, my daughter Cierra and daddy were quite happy with the news!  I was in complete shock lol

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Then I saw that there was quite a bit of blood in the water and I could hear Selena and Jaymie saying that I needed to get out of the pool so they could monitor my bleeding.  I got a shot of Pitocin, some Hemhalt tincture and eventually a placenta shake to control the bleeding.

As soon as I was out of the pool and on the couch-bed in the living room I felt the most horrible migraine I have ever had come on.  (Towards the last days, I finally got upset and actually cried out to, “bring it on!”  It hurt so bad, it honestly couldn’t get any worse)

After that I was in a fog and just knew that I was in pain.  Everyone tried to help remedy the pain but it just wouldn’t subside and finally I called my beautiful friend Mileka to ask if she would please come and massage my migraine away.  She was a God sent and the migraine subsided enough that I finally felt I was able to enjoy this little baby girl.  After a few days I noticed that my thirst could not be quenched no matter how much water I drank and I was hospitalized for dehydration.  We began loading me up with electrolytes and soon I felt like there was hope at the end of the tunnel.

The migraine still persisted so I called on the chiropractor I had seen prenatally and that we send all our clients at Hale Kealaula to; Dr. Christine Lipat at Niu Health Chiropractic.  She adjusted baby and I and we both were SO much happier, Clover had been a bit fussy at the breast for a while but after she was adjusted was doing wonderfully.

Of course after all of that, my breastfeeding was a bit hampered and I had to start little Clover on some formula (which still kills me a bit) and we are now doing well with both.

Fast forward to today and Princess Clover is a very expressive, talkative, loving, happy and beautiful baby’s in the world 🙂

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We have had so much support since pregnancy and we wouldn’t have been able to be sane and doing well without you all:  our co-workers (too many to list), family; the Yadao ohana especially Aunty Roxanne and Aunty Noella who were one of the first visitors we had and the Skal ohana who have been supportive and sending their love and support from day one, love you all.

We’re most grateful for our birth team who had to come almost every day post-partum for one reason or another with me (we always say birth workers/body workers are always the ones that need the most care lol and it was no different with me!)  Selena, Valerie, Jaymie…Adam and I are so eternally grateful for all your care and love.

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Photos by Captivating Creation Photography https://m.facebook.com/captivatingcreation

It’s been a while…

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Needless to say, after the proposed Home Birth regulation bill there were many factors that came to light and preparations that needed to happen.

Fortunately the bill became a simple task force of those in the hospitals, doctors and others such as EMS and any other stake holders to meet and come up with strategies that would make collaboration and transfers of home birth clients smooth and without tension.

The Midwives Alliance of Hawai`i put together a panel of all of the stake holders and came up with some tasks to make communication between each more sufficient.  Another work group was formed to start preparing for a consumer based bill to be introduced to the legislation in a future session.

Meanwhile, the number of Midwives practicing in Hawai`i has grown and there are apprentices and newly certified Midwives returning to the islands.

There are many things to consider and prepare for the future in regards to Midwifery in Hawai`i and the only way it will remain untouched by those who don’t understand or appreciate it, is for everyone to be prepared for the next push by those that are looking to limit choices for Hawai`i’s families.

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Planned Home Birth Study

Planned Home Birth Study

Slowly we are coming to a place where people are realizing, that birth took place mainly outside of a hospital only 100 years ago.

Birth in hospitals have been proven time and again to not be “safer”, with our maternal and infant mortality rate one of the highest in the developed world and only about 2% of births taking place at home, the truth doesn’t lie.

This study comes at a remarkable time, as Hawai`i is gearing up to have it’s home birth practices looked at by the government, with SB2569 introduced by Senator Josh Green (D) District 3 – Kona, Ka‘u, which essentially illegalizes home births, luckily we have many studies, passionate advocates and people around the world watching and sending their love and offers of support.

Hawai`i has a unique chance to lead the world to be a model of what truly healthy maternity care looks like.

If you haven’t read the bill yet go HERE

Write/Call/Email your Senators TODAY and tell them that SB2569 MUST be killed, as it does not serve women and babies.      CLICK HERE to find your representative.

This article from Science and Sensibility about the “safety” of home birth is a great read.

Home Birth #12…

I need to go back

and look at my records to see which number birth this was exactly but I’m pretty sure this was #12 😉

This mama is so cute and very fiesty

She had her first baby in the hospital and had such a bad experience that she was going against all her family’s statements of fear of the unknown, the fear of the misconceptions and accusations and had her second baby at her home.

Waking in the early morning hours she wondered if what she was feeling was ‘real’, a few hours later, she called her Midwives.  We arrived about an hour later, set up, did the usual vitals, set up the birth tub etc.  She was so strong and did excellent with every surge and continued around the house, cooking, making sure her mom was on a plane over and everyone else was taken care of and had breakfast. 

When transition came and the pool was ready for her.  She had read that pushing felt good to some women but for some reason she REALLY didn’t like it…until later.

Toilets are really under appreciated tools for labor and birth 😉

Mom needed time alone to herself and sat on the toilet for a few surges, then yelled for Selena to come in.  Baby was born a few minutes later.

We got her on the bed, nursing , as she ate and drank.  Older sister came in with daddy and they huddled on their bed, sister already protecting her baby brother.  As we did his newborn check, she made sure to tell us to be gentle and that he didn’t like it cause he was crying lol…such a great big sister.

As soon as he was born, her first words were, “I did it!”, “We did it baby, we did it together!”, “I can’t believe I did it”, “I feel so amazing, I could do it all over again.”

Mom thanked us and said she couldn’t have done it without us and Selena told her that she did, she did do it without us.  Mom just said, that we got her to a place where she could be by herself for a bit and then have her baby and that she was extremely grateful.

He looks just like his strong sister and mom and they gave him a great strong name too.

We left them all in their bedroom together, watching t.v., mom eating and baby resting soundly on her chest.

Nothing compares to the joy, love, reverence and overwhelming amazement of witnessing women, babies and families being created in so much love, right in front of your eyes and being able to hold the space for it to unfold.

Except for being the birthing mother

Home Birth Segment-KITV

http://www.kitv.com/news/29799123/detail.html

So happy for my friends Kaja Gibbs-Davidson and her husband Matthew Davidson on their film, “Born Two Birth” being featured in this segment from KITV’s Mahealani Richardson on the increase of home births…it would’ve been great if the terms were used and pronounced correctly and if the fear based information was left out but all in all, I love that home birth was looked at, talked about and now more women will look into this as an option for themselves, when previously they may not have known what it was at all.

Let me know what you think about it!